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Some men have untoward behaviour which they should fast do away with. They should not overlook this or take it with levity. This is because these are some of the real reasons they are not known as ladies' men. These things are stumbling blocks to them settling down to have a long lasting marriage life. Women are fragile vessels. They should be handled with caution. They should be given regular care and attention. Women are not the only ones to share the blame for hiccups in relationship. A great number of men are to blame. Men who are experts at blame games should begin to examine themselves. They should desist from such acts. They should know why women are not comfortable with them. They should find out the best methods of cleansing themselves off anti-feminine spirits. It is important for them to know the real reasons women point at them with a long pole. Some of us African men have some of these bad qualities. It is better to correct them than living with them. 1. Dic

I met a young man some weeks back who got married some months ago, on his way from work! he look so tired and all exhausted, after we exchange pleasantries. He said brother: Take your time before you settle down in marriage. I looked at him and said 'yes Sir'... I understood that statement very loud and clear. Not that he is not enjoying his marriage, He is. As my dad will say: It is easier to get into it than to get out of it!!!. I have heard some young people makes such statement "let me marry and Rest". Listen!!! Young man and young woman, No one marries and rest. Marriage comes with greater responsibilities. for the fact that your friends are getting married does not mean you should rush too. For the fact that your parents makes some statements that you are not comfortable with does not mean you should rush. Some times back, after my sister had a very stressful day from school, she prepared dinner and served everyone, as at the point she wanted to