WORDS OF WISDOM TO YOUNG SINGLE GUYS!


        One of the best experiences a young man can have in life is watching your kids grow while you're still young.
Don't make our mistakes. Marry now with the little you have. Don't wait to be a millionaire. Have kids early so you can grow with them. For some of my close pals of my age, not having kids yet and it's one of our greatest regret...
Grow with your kids and succeed with your wife. You might still not succeed at your target years, so start your life early and with consistency you will grow in marriage... You can never be a 100% ready for marriage.. Never!!



        When I was in my early twenties, I was thinking about making millions before I marry. Many years later millions didn't come and No kids, No wife.
I had an opportunity to marry the love of my life when I was 24 years as a young accountant but all I was thinking was "What am I going to feed her with?"
Right now she's married to another guy, she has given birth to two kids and all grown. The guy that married her was still schooling by then but they worked on their success together.
So please If you can feed yourself 3 or 4 times a day, it means you can feed your wife and you have to believe it. Marry early and don't wait. Don't make our mistakes because I see my childhood friends play with their kids. Most of them are not doing as well as me but they're happy in their marriage.
Trust me, it isn't about money, though it counts but rather your happiness depends entirely on your wisdom.
You can be poor and comfortable. With a well planned life they're happy. Trust me it isn't about money. What was my problem? Build mansion, buy Rolls Royce, marry a Sharon Stone type of lady? Never because I still don't have those things I dreamed of and of course the years I wasted, I can never have them and I mean never.
You can't be 60yrs old and your kids will still be in their 20's. What are you supposed to be? Their grand father or father?

Please young men, take my advice seriously. Let the little you have speak for you. Settle down early because God can change your life in a blink. With a good wife by your side you will succeed.
No matter how hard life is, no matter the situation, no matter what the devil or demons will do, start your life early and stay blessed.

A WORD TO THE WISE IS ENOUGH..
                                                                      Dr Oyebade Jerry.

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